Wednesday, February 07, 2007

hate it when this happens...

i hate it when people jugde you by your looks and not your personality or innerself. especially guys. i love being friends with others, meeting new people but when they treated me that way, it just urggghhhh (am out of words). The first time it happened, it made me feel sad and feeling inferior about myself and i hate that kind of feeling. It still does make me feel sad but the degree of sadness is not as great as before. it happened often enough until i am quite skeptical to meet to new people.

the other thing i despise, is when people compared me with my sister or cousins. so what if they are good looking, keep it to yourself. don't have to tell me that. i don't need to be reminded of that. had enough of it my entire life.

i have to console myself by reminding the good values that i have in me. i don't have the look but i do have the brain. i am still trying to prove that to someone. to forgive is easy but to forget..ermm.

don't you just hate it. what is good look with a bad attitude?

9 comments:

sushi said...

Yati

Don't wallow yourself in that Yati! You are the best person on earth. Who cares what shallow people think of you. They are not the judge and you never give them the authority to judge you.

I always thought i was adopted bcs I am dark the rest of my siblings are fair and good looking. I got over that. Just don't give them the authority to judge you. You are Yati and that's that.Period.

azell said...

sista.. i hate that kind of ppl too.. of course, especially the guys.. i know i'm ugly, but so what? it is not that i am depending on them or whatsoever. and y ppl must compare 1 person with another? pelik sungguh kan? ape-apehal pun, buat dono jek ngan that kind of ppl. buang mase jek layan diaorang tuh... *hugs*

Rini said...

101% agreed with you on this...

muka cantik mcm Jennifer Aniston tapi hidup tak hepi buat apa?

badan slim mcm kylie minogue tapi berpenyakit buat apa?

so, as long as we're happy & healthy..what people say doesn't really matter..

Life too beautiful to worry about ludicrous stuffs...Live life to the fullest, babe

p/s: normally, i'll just treat them like a dirt on my butt which i will just brushed it away

walkthrulife said...

thanks...

feel a bit better now.

*hugs*hugs*

cekya said...

these kinda ppl are a big time loser. forget it la sis...

mamaEmmy said...

girl... physical beauty is just a temporary decor to the eyes that are looking, it will definitely subside onefine day... however, inner beauty is the permanent strength that everybody is looking for, and that of course, stays forever... many people they acquire either one, but lucky ones will have both...

trust me my gal, you definitely fall into the later category... probably those unlucky people didnt know you well enough... and that is their mistakes...

*wink-wink* luv

lunacy said...

wat is beauty anyway? dun mind them lah yati .. u are beautiful to me : )

walkthrulife said...

so they say "beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder".

i should be thinking positively.
but as human being, sometimes we are emotionally influenced by our surroundings...myself included.

SIGH!

huslina said...

Assalammualaikum Ateh,

Agreed with what u said but that is LIFE.
Probably u hv read in my blog before on the difference treatment receive after I decided to cover up.It's even harder for me, sorrounded by model looking, socialite cousin.

But Alhamdulillah, life is good, too good indeed that I continuously counting on my blessing. You should too....